I totally agree with what everyone here has said....i went through something simular...

i was speaking with a Dominant over in the Uk and we never played but talked most of the time online. So i become abit attached and really did like it, didnt see myself getting played(or whatever he thought) but he ended up..allowing the female to post "their union" in the thread for introduction...but i guess he thought i wouldnt be online, and it was a slap to the face because he made a big stick about his "Horses being spooked over a race car" but it wasnt it was him not being man enough to tel lhim he was talking with someone while he was talking with me...

plus it turns out that, she's in the usa same as as i am, and on the same coast so it wasnt like this young lady was in the Uk with him.(guess u can see abit of bitterness here LOL)..anyway i wished them the best, i handled myself with grace as only somsone of my quality could do, and she's a nice female may not deserve to be treated the way he's doing her but she doesnt know and she's probably better ignorant in her bliss..(sorry to say and i knwo a few might not like that but hey..thats how i see it)

but i wrote a blog about it here and another site, i expresssed myself with a few of the members here but ive stayed polite and just let him be the ass he tries to pretend he's not! anyway...i totally understand where your coming from and its almost the same sitatution as i was in, and as the others have said..be glad u arent with him, he's he's that pity to just up and leave...i was told that...at least i found out early on that he wasnt any good for me, that he was an ass...and you did the same he's no good for you andu dont need to be treated that way!!