well thank you both for your replys, means a great deal, and they both make alot of sense. I know I have not lived that long and alot of my issues will just take time and living to figure out, and time spent working through them with myself.

And yes, I do my best to keep communication, communication is important to me, openess is key. Along with my golden rule....Secrets are the devil -hates secrets- anyways....yeah it'll take time but being new to things I am curious different routes people would take, or well..I know its on a case by case basis but...

Thank you very much for the welcome -grins-