Quote Originally Posted by lozzy View Post
To me it entirely depends on the context. In most situations I'm more than happy to be told I'm a 'good girl'. But sometimes I feel really demeaned by it, for example if I've worked really hard to acomplish something under my own accord and someone dissmisses me with 'oh good girl' then I feel patronised and upset,...

Although of course sometimes it's meant to cause that reaction... in which case in the *long run* i enjoy it...

hmmm generally i like it, is what im trying to say, i think.
Yes, I wonder what reaction it's meant to cause. If he wants me to feel somewhat belittled, in a sort of sweet way, then it's working - and why mess with a system that works?