Does it bother anyone to be told "good girl"?

[delish]

I notice not many people are really touching the second question, beyond "Do you like it?" The question was also posed regarding how to deal with not liking it. I spoke with my beloved and He said that a reward should reward, period. If it's not doing the job, I have an obligation to Him to speak up about it, particularly if it's doing the precise opposite of its intention. Plus it provides Him with a phrase to use to push my buttons. Hah. (He's made of evil. And win.)