Quote Originally Posted by Ragoczy View Post
In my opinion, what you describe crosses the line from normal-healthy into abuse, and I in no way wish to dismiss or diminish what you and others have gone through.
Well said. The people in this community, especially, have to know where the line between healthy and abusive is drawn. Too many from outside the BDSM community consider anything to do with it as abuse, regardless of consent. There can be no justification for abuse.