Does it bother anyone to be told "good girl"?

[Hime]

I like it in a D/s context, coming from my Master. In any other context, like if I got a paper published in a journal and my professor said "Good girl!", I would be righteously pissed off.

[Pearlgem]

Being a wee bitty older, I've had to get used to 'young lady' and 'girl' which patently ain't so, but when I hear 'good girl' ... It's a little demeaning, humiliating to be spoken to like a child in this way, but that's one of the reasons I like it. I like very much being stripped away of my worldly ego so that I can submit to my Master in humble simplicity. Besides, he is pleased with me and it tugs at my heart.

ANY ONE else calling me a girl will get the withering look.

[cookiecat]

Being a wee bitty older, I've had to get used to 'young lady' and 'girl' which patently ain't so, but when I hear 'good girl' ... It's a little demeaning, humiliating to be spoken to like a child in this way, but that's one of the reasons I like it. I like very much being stripped away of my worldly ego so that I can submit to my Master in humble simplicity. Besides, he is pleased with me and it tugs at my heart.

ANY ONE else calling me a girl will get the withering look.

i totally get this - i'm older and love the daddy/little girl dynamic of D/s. but every so often, it strikes me as an odd fit as a 47 year old little girl... i do choose to look at it as a mind-set rather than an actual age...

"humble simplicity" - i like that, pearlgem. someone sent me to a blog called "imperfect grace" - sort of the same theme.

someone mentioned "good slut" was more of a turn on or felt more comfortable... for me it depends... good slut comes out during play... and that's so so good. good girl is saved for when i've done something that was a struggle. which, a lot of times, is just generally being obedient...

but why not agree on something you both feel comfortable with?

[lucky#13]

I LOVE being called "good girl" i know Master is proud of me and pleased with what i have done... i enjoy the belittlement of it though... i love being humiliated to associate me particularly with a dog cuz he mostly calls me "his pet " ... really love it when he says that fyi lol... it makes me feel loved cuz he knows how much i do enjoy it

[Bratty_Sub]

its wonderful to hear "good girl" from Him it makes me feel great and happy.. !

[his_sinful_kitten]

I love it! It lets me know that my Master is pleased with me.

Although he doesnt say it often, it is special to me when he does

[hissexypet]

Yep, love hearing Him tell me I'm a good girl.

It's the highest form of praise to me.

[mollydoll]

I've always strived to be a "good little girl" "sweet girl" pretty little doll etc. The only term that I've ever had an issue with was being called "cunt" My former Master only called me that one time and when it made me cry he never called me that again. I'm not sure why it made me cry it just did and it wasn't crying in a good way either it was "don't touch me" crying. So I always strive to be good except when I'm being bad...
*giggles*
mollydoll

[hissexypet]

I love being called a good girl. Its the ultimate form of praise in my book.

Just love hearing Him tell me that, I just beam with pride knowing that He is pleased with me.

[Sanapet]

I know I'm new to the forum, but when my Master calls me a 'good girl' it's extremely rewarding. I feel like He's pleased with me and my action.

On the flip side, I had a problem in the beginning of O/our relationship with Him calling me slave, just as a pet name. For me the word seemed very cold and demeaning. I thought of a few alternatives I could live with or would like better and talked to Him about using those instead of slave (He now calls me pet). And W/we decided that He would use 'slave' when he was displeased with me or punishing me since it bothered me anyway.

Hope this helps!

Sana

[mauiboy73]

When my Mistress tells me "good girl", i know that ive pleased her. Therefore, i love hearing "good girl".