looking for help

[skp2bear]

I just read a story in the library here(sorry I can't remember the name) about a Dom/husband who gave his sub/wife a spanking when she could't talk with him. Although I have read similar settings I felt this was writer's fantasy. But lately it seems that I might just be as introspective as the wife. Perhaps with the hurricane adding in perhaps I'm too into my feelings and such a punishment might really help.

[Oak]

Hi sweetie, old or young, any sub need to be treated with respect. Hearing about your experiences really pisses me of. Mane honest Masters suffer from such jerks... I'm not especially young either. So if you not are totally scared away, let me know and we might be able to find something out. I've been into BdSm my whole adult life.

[cookiecat]

i've been in your subbie shoes & it's frustrating when you have these desires - the wish to please - and no one who will treat those desires seriously and tenderly.

but it will happen... keep your eyes wide open and most of all, stay true to your heart. don't let your, ummm, pussy (can i say that?) make you crazy. i can only speak for myself but my gosh - you can let your lusty sub-frenzy get you in all kinds of trouble...

whether you want online or real time, finding a Dom/Master is no different that finding a date! you meet, get to know each other... you wouldn't jump right in bed on a first vanilla date, right? you take time to get to know each other. you go slow. and if he is true and honest and really cares for you, he will respect you. (LOL unless you're looking for a little humiliation. but, if he cares about you, he'll do it respectfully... )

take care! cookie