wonderworld: i'm not sure the term "sub frenzy" exactly covers what you're feeling since you mentioned you're not feeling super needy... just more in awe maybe? the feelings we have in bringing our submissive side out are pretty powerful!

sometimes those feelings will pull us in so many different directions. and for me, i get really confused.

hope this info helps any newbie feeling confused... (hope it's ok to link this?) - it was a pretty good article.



http://www.steel-door.com/Frenzies.html

What occurs next is a mad dash or race toward 'finding' that special person who can attend to those so long unattended needs coupled to a desperate desire to gather more and more information. This often triggers or propels the initiation of a state of frenzy. This is an increasing and progressive sensation of 'need'. Fairly quickly the submissive may discover that 'getting their fix', becomes supremely important in their lives. It can leave them irrational, willing to make poor decisions, rash, impulsive and generally stupid. A submissive in a frenzied state is at their most vulnerable to succumbing to the ploys of those less than admirable. They may become easily enthralled, believe themselves 'in love', willing to give over anything (almost literally) in order to fill that enormous void in their life.