i enjoy and hate anal at the sametime... i have had it done to me several times... my one partner on a regular basis... it hurts like hell but at the sametime the excitement of giving my most intiment hole to them i luv... not to mention after the inital entry and a few minutes in it does start to feel better... i think i would enjoy it more if i was given lube... i have only been in vanilla relationships so it usually was a suprise from behind when i was given it and hurt like a bitch cuz there was no lube... so yes i do enjoy it but more for the surrender part then the actual deed i suppose