Do you ever get angry at your Dom?

You mean just today or...LOL.

On a serious note, yes - of course I do. He gets frustrated, I get angry - its all part of life. This year has been very good, very peaceful for us, I don't know if we have gotten so comfortable with each other or if this is just intermission in the game of life - but earlier, it was a constant rollercoaster.


Do you express it?

Yes, I express it. I am a terrible lier and I cant hide anything from Him anyway, He knows me too well.

How?

Depends what I am angry about. If I actually have a reason - we talk it out. On a few issues it was necessary for us to have the same conversation over and over until He finally got it, lol.

My Husband is a very calm personality, very rational, patient, considerate - and its what I love about Him and why we get along but sometimes you just want some kind of reaction and it irritates me like crazy. Ashamed to say it, but more than once I expressed my anger on Him (ie. threw a temper tantrum), just because He was the closest.

If you don't, how do you deal with it?

He doesn't react to my anger, instead He goes even more blank. He spanks it out of me. We talk it out. - Not necessarily in that order, lol.

A quote from my blog that may be pertinent:

"Never say anything - you don't mean, just to be pointlessly hurtful - that you wont be able to take back.

That American myth - "never go to bed angry" aka "argue till you drop" is pure crap and leads straight to the Divorce Court.

Morning is often smarter than the evening - its hard to argue out of spite or about silly things with a man who just held you through the night.

Don't forget to talk - but communication isn't just talking - even when arguing don't deny physical contact or shy away from makeup sex."

Does your Dom ever apologize?

Yes, when He is wrong. Alas, He is rarely wrong.