We're sort of in similar places (i'm still figuring out where i want to wind up, too!) I actually didn't worry too much about it until recently with people asking me where i am and how i see myself. it first i was really concerned and then i realized ultimately it wasn't going to change anything about me, and i frankly haven't been active enough to describe any strong trends in one direction or the other. it should be a comment on what you are or typically like, not what you expect you'll be, right? so right now, i'm just going to go where the 'feels-good' takes me.

One thing i did was print out one of the BDSM checklists that usually serve as communication tools between two people; i crossed off all the things i did not ever want to try (my divination tool for this was whether or not, if they 'forced' me to do it, i would be making them pancakes the next morning, or i would have them arrested). my next step is to try everything else at least once (i had a food list once like this...) good times!