Hi there,

It looks like youve decided for yourself that youre possibly a sub, well from your nickname anyway.

I guess in this sort of situation, you have to ask your self,


1) why wasnt the bedroom perfect?

2) what would have made it perfect?

reading the stories and forums on this site may help if they don't then its possible that bdsm just isn't for you, if they do, try and identify what it is that gets you going. Afterall its good for you to know what gets you going, because if you are a sub and you find a Dom they will probably want to know too.

Hope that helps,

U.