Let me begin with this- I am a hellspawn slave. Now let me clarify- I am exactly the bitchy, opinionated, abrasive, domineering person that my Master created me to be. He has no problem with me telling a dick that he is acting like a dick... even if he is the "dick" in question. That said, there is a cut off point, where all anger and expressions thereof WILL stop. If I push past that point, consequences are severe. I do get angry with him frequently, and am always encouraged to be open and honest about my feelings. That does not include flying off the handle though, and acting like a complete cunt. When it comes to expressing anger (or anything else) to other people, I have free rein to speak my mind and be as dominant as I naturally am; he wants and expects that of me. However, I am his slave and he fought a long fight to finally win my complete submission and surrender. He does not allow me an inch past the line in the sand... ever. And yes, he does apologize when he knows that he has handled something in a way he should not have. That is his judgement call, but he is also extremely fair.