A walk thru BDSM

[Ruby]

Great thread, Rabbit.

Lots of fun pictures and things to be considered.

For example, some of us often joke that our two favorite possible meanings for the S in BDSM are usually ignored: spanking and sex!

the Ideal couple for this life style is as follows

A Sadist: Person who enjoys inflicting pain, usually sexually--Usually the Dom

A Masochist: Person who enjoys pain, usually sexually usually the sub

now you do not have to be either to enjoy BDSM---but this group usually enjoys it to the fullest extent and push the limits

Hmmm....I disagree with your comment. There is no "ideal couple" for this lifestyle, because there is no one lifestyle. It's about what works for each couple or set of partners.

Now if you mean - that a couple who enjoys S/M as well as D/S is more likely to experiment with more variants of BDSM, then okay - I'll agree with that.

I really liked your subtle point about which role is taken for S/M session. There are a number of wonderful dom/dommes in the world who are enjoy receiving pain and ordering their sub(s) to give them the pain they crave. Does this make them less of a top or a dom? No, it doesn't.

I find all too many masochists believe that they must be a "sub" in a BDSM relationship, and it's just not true.

It's the same for D/S.
Not everyone wants to play dom/sub, but many enjoy spicing up their sex life with a bit of giving and receiving pain or adding the thrill of bondage.

BDSM is a giant buffet, with all kinds of dishes waiting to be experienced.

Am looking forward to more of your thoughts and photos.

Ruby