Gender

[Ozme52]

Yeah, I have to disagree with boo...

Though I don't have any insights to the other "states" I had my epiphany that it has all too much to do with the brain... and therefore how we're born. We know that we are all of the same stock... dna... and that we're all physically the same gender (or perhaps better to say genderless,) in the womb early on... That sexual differentiation occurs along the way... and that it can get mixed up... XX with penises, XY with vaginas... so why not assume that the more complex organ, the brain can get mixed up too.

But I digress. I realized that my sexuality manifests itself from the brain and that it has an awful lot to do with how I process shapes. I was in Vegas at the same time as a body building championship was being held... found myself behind this absolutely "gorgeous" woman... and... nothing.

Then I realized that her triangular back, trapazoid shaped trapezeus, her polygonal buttocks... made my reaction to her the same as if she were male.

Suddenly it's clear (at least to me) that shapes matter.

Now don't get me wrong... I know this is an over simplification.

Men and lesbians are attracted to curves.
Women and gay men are attracted to angles.

And for another thread if anyone is interested... the "ill" are attracted to squares and rectangles, which if you look... are what we humans tend to look like before puberty.