Before she died, my wife liked to have her pubic hair shaved and I admit so did I. She found it difficult to get a smooth nickless shave by herself so I began to do it for her. I got one of those baby changing pads for the bed and had her lie there. After soaking her pubes with a warm cloth I brought out my shaving soap and her bush brush and he razor. Yes I am old school. I use shaving soap and brush and an old fashioned safty razor. We found that like on me, the shaving soap did a better job of softening the hair than other commercial shaving products. It was fun to do and we both liked the look. Afterwards, I would often dress her up in diapers and plastic pants after oiling her down with baby oil.