I never openly verbally ask or "beg" as he calls it. Not without permission.

I do however comunicate in a wide variaty of other ways,,licks my lips ,,lol.

I dont "act out" expecting to recieve something pleasurable, if i was being bad to get attention he knows it and often times punishes me swiftly to remind me of my place (and i would have it no other way).

The behavior you seem to be talking about with your girl is something i do all the time to tantalize and excite him. He knows he can have "it" at the snap of a finger, I am just reminding him. (winks)