Quote Originally Posted by Tojo
Hey if the first guy was that nice, wouldn't he have taken care of all your needs? Just curious.
Tojo
Hmmm, he was nice. I should probably say that at 19 I really didn't understand myself enough to really give him a full chance in knowing who I was. He was just far too vanilla in all areas for me to really feel desired. I just never felt needed with him.

I later discovered that I needed a very strong willed man to be happy and content with. One that would give me all the attention and love I needed to feel. I would consider my love a nice guy as well, but one that is strong enough to know himself and me.

Thank you for the great welcome, I have felt very free in this forum to put in my two cents here and there so far. Thank you for the great community.

Tae'lyn