Well I found out how to fix the problem.

Leave the site then go in to your cookie manager and delete all BDSM Library cookies. Reboot. Come back to the site and log in again (check the remember me if you want it too) and you should be good to go.

I got to thinking that when nothing has changed then it has to be something that is changed by the site not my computer and the only thing that could be was cookies.

I was right. Hope that helps others.