is it Ok or Not ok?

[Oak]

Hi little one. First a very warm welcome to the forum and to this world too. I'm sure that you'll like it here, as we're a bunch of crazy but very friendly people.
Well of course BdSm isn't wrong. But you'll always face prejudice and know-all poses from others. Mostly due to ignorance, but some times due to jealousy too, as the simply envy you for living out your dreams.
Yes you might loose some vanilla friends and yes you'll meet many prejudices. I think that all here have that.
I can mention a very amusing example from my own little world! Many years agao I was chairman for a motorcycle club- very unprejudiced peopleI In the board was a very sweet girl, who always gave hugs when we met (not only to me but to all board members) During a board meeting, they found out that I'm a Dom and after the meeting, the girl hugged the others and just shook my hand.
So even though you might loose some vanilla friends- who surely wasn't your real friends anyhow- your real friends will stay and you'll find other friends inside this world.