Quote Originally Posted by Zinsho
Well rather than start yet another thread might as well use this one.

I'm Zinsho, or Zin, or in some special cases Zinny (although that is preferably not the case)... at least that's the name I'd most likely answer to in person of any name I've created for a character or used in an online setting, it's almost an alter-ego yet at the same time is me to the purest extent.

I'm a new Dom I suppose, had some experience online, many conversations that have taught me much or at least I believe have taught me much and enough curiosity that I tend to find out whatever I try to find out in the long run. My biggest problem that I tend to have is allowing myself to be myself for lack of a better way of putting it, I don't doubt that I know what to do or that I'm making the right choice, I just rarely am able to put away some tendencies I've gotten and simply act rather than leave things open to choice, I highly suspect this has to do with my ways of dealing with anger/my temper, simply because I keep it bottled away and shut down rather than risk it exploding and something in me associates taking control as being akin to that (and I do have screwed up views of myself if of nothing else).

Zin
Hello, and thank you for your interesting introduction to yourself.

Being an ace Dom, as I think you know, is about much more than just knowing where to hit first and how to avoid injury. An important element is indeed being comfortable with yourself and also in control of yourself.

As you get to know people in this world you might find someone, Dom/me or sub, who you feel you can trust enough to allow you them to mentor you. In a mentoring relationship you can risk exposing your doubts and fears, and learn to either deal with them, or work around them. And in the meantime, do not hestiate to ask, ask and ask again.

Wishing you a happy time in this forum, and elsewhere.

cariad