How do you "look" for a Dom?

[shyslut]

Theres lots of personals sites. collarme.com alt.com and fetlife.com and many more.

They often let you organize by state and some even by city or metro area. when I did this for curiosity fetlife had 256 people in my area and collarme had even more.

The real question is once you start looking at these sites is how do you narrow down who you want to start corresponding with!!!!

Not to mention that if you get familier with local clubs etc lots of places have bdsm events for singles!

[miimii]

...and wouldn't you know it, the site that I said was down for a while is back up and there was a monthly munch TONIGHT!!!! I am bummed that I missed it, but I sure as shit signed up on the mailing list and I won't miss next month!

In case anyone is interested, I went to this link bdsm-education.com/munch.html to find munches in my area. They are listed by state so perhaps others could find one in their area.b