- what's your favorite thing to hear your Dom/me//sub say to you? Why do you love it so much?
"I love you". There really can't be anything better, imho.
- what's your favorite thing to say to them?
"Get your feet off the living room-table. Now!" always is a favourite when i'm in need of a good spanking.
Seriously, i just can quote myself: "I love you".