Quote Originally Posted by sillypony View Post

-sigh- If i could just stay in France and not have to face this problem ever... ha... life would be good

To me sillypony, this seems to say it all *soft smile* Perhaps when i was 22 i would have been as confused as you are, but after living almost twice as long as that *no old woman jokes either!!..LOL*, there is only one piece of advice that i can give you dear.

Life is WAY too short to be in a situation that does not meet your needs! i wonder if your confusion has to do with your *love* for your bf, or your body and mind telling you that your bf just doesn't seem to be doing it for either any more and this is causing that lovely emotion 'guilt' to come to fore. Perhaps for the rest of your time in France, you should reevaluate your relationship with your bf and what needs you have that are not being met. Then when you get back to him, you should discuss these with him. If you can come to a compromise that both of you are comfortable with, GREAT! If you can't, perhaps it's time to change things *shrugs* And at the risk of getting blasted for this, you have been with your bf since you were 18 years old. Perhaps there is safety and security in the relationship because you don't know anything else??? It's ok to grow and change, *smiles*, just remember that while you're growing and changing, the people and things around you are doing the same. What was perfect for you at 18 may not be so at 22. Best wishes to you and i sincerely hope that you find the answers you are looking for!

tyd