hi. I feel a little awkard posting here because im still new and what not. I wanted to say thanks to den for starting this thread, its helped me quite a bit. I dunno how to say this so i guess ill just blurt it out.

I recntly found someone lol, who im very intersteaded in but i find it so hard to look at Him. He's so very similar in looks and sometimes in manner to the way someone else used to be who wasnt, well very nice. Its strange cos i know this person and when i cant see Him (talk over the net or hear His voice) i feel fine. But when i see Him all i can think about is being back in situations out of my control and an aboslute fear all over. I start to cy and shake and i cant stop it. I dont know what to do about this can anyone help?

Stace

oh and sry for my spelling and grammar, its rly bad i know.