I find this htread very interesting. I love Love LOVE L O V E anal! LOL I actually prefer it to vaginal sex. Maybe it's because I just love to have my ass up in the air. LOL I was introduced to it in my teens and the guy was very adamant that he wanted it but I HAD to be relaxed and really believe that he wasn't going to hurt me before he would try it. Then in my early twenties, I met a guy who wanted it all the time and we actually got to the point where he could do it without any lube and he was HUNG!
I have found though in my old age now that if it isn't done correctly, I can't do it. I must be lubed and streched out first and then I can take it for hours and hours. Anal is like normal sex to me and not really an act of submission. If I'm with someone who I know does it well, I will just suffer through the traditional until I can get it in my ass. Is it really submission if you want that more than regular sex?