lol, too true too true RickBulow74, heck ...

When I first was going to join this site my Owner (who taught me most all I know of being Groean btw) even said I may want to very carefully consider weather or not I should use the title of kajira when refering to myself.

He said it had been his experience that most of the BDSM crowd would look upon me with disdain or as being some kind of freak or wanna be.

I even vacilated a few times in frustration becuase of the way I was outright attacked at first (amazing but true, right in open chat, not to mention nasty pm's), I actually changed my status on my profile and allmost left the place for good. Others however embraced me ,some even were closet Goreans themselves, just unwilling to brave the guantlet, some confided in or praised me for standing up.

So despite my misgivings I barrowed some strength from the others (His Blizzard especially {special thanks to you my elder sister} who showed me being Gorean was what mattered in my heart and not what others might say or think) and recieved my Owners support and blessing to stay and be proud of what and who I am.

Mabey even put some of that "Ahhhhhhh! back in La Kajira"