Quote Originally Posted by Hime View Post
It's sex no matter what. But in a BDSM context, I don't think that either giving or receiving anal sex is necessarily submissive OR necessarily dominant.

Let's say I have a hot submissive boyfriend whom I haven't allowed to cum in, say, a week, and I tell him that I'm dying for a good fuck and I want him to do me in the ass -- but he has to wear his cock ring while he does it. Doesn't seem like an act of domination in that case, does it?
Certainly not from his perspective.

But yeah Hime. That's hot from the top.