I'd seen this thread- and - read it.

My Question better the answer i am looking for is a little different.
For some details u will have to ask me - takes to long - but anyway -
a girl likes to take me as her master. Now - my mind is a mess - as i said before sometimes i was suposed to be a dom - but never could figure out why. So - the question is not - how to be a Dom/Master - the question is :
is there something which makes me a dom ? So - i like to hear how other ppl
mentioned that they r sub/DOM - how they developed .