Quote Originally Posted by Guest91408 View Post
My question is, would you say you are just a natural switch...or its something that has developed and changed you from either being primairly Dom or Sub?
I had both sides right from the start, but only used the subside for years as I felt rather confused by the whole thing which burst out unexpectedly in my mid twenties and felt one side was more than enough to get on with ;-)

After a number of years I became domme, feeling that the sub side was frustrating in that you were always depending on others, and I could not seem to find a good partner. Several other women experienced the same thing at that time.

Now I am in a relationship with another dom/switch, and I am sub with him, mostly, and domme with others.