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[Kahlann]

I wince all the time. Then after some thought on it wonder what the appeal is, and think some more, then start coming up with reasons why it might be fun. Sometimes I decide I might be willing to try it. Other times I can't come up with any reason why it would seem fun and move on.

[cadence]

I've always been a kinky fritter, ever since I can remember.
I have probably been more judgemental of myself than anyone else.
What bothers me the most are the non-sexual things I do in a D/s context.

Am I judgemental? More than likely, but I'd at least like to think I have an open mind to everything and everyone.
Most times when I think what someone else does is bizarre, it's because it's not my thing, I don't understand it, or I haven't tried it yet.

[leah06]

[QUOTE=cadence;756664]I've always been a kinky fritter, ever since I can remember.
I have probably been more judgemental of myself than anyone else. [QUOTE]

OK, yes, that's me exactly. I spent so long judging myself, and it's such a relief to be slowly moving away from that, that I feel pretty humble around other people's kinks.

"Judge not lest ye be judged" - in my case, it means, judge not because you'll probably be doing that in about a month.

And yes, anything non-consentual, with people or animals or whatever, I certainly do judge. It's the things that people agree to do to each other that amaze, surprise, astound, repel, delight, seduce, astonish me. Frequently, when I am astonished or even repelled, I have less of an ick response than a feeling of, hmm, I wonder what they know that I don't?

[jeanne]

"Judge not lest ye be judged" - in my case, it means, judge not because you'll probably be doing that in about a month.

Ain't that the damn truth!

Truer words, rachel...