Well, I agree that submission is a gift, and as I get to know someone of course this topic comes up in conversation - BUT. When you've only met someone five minutes ago and he starts in about how submission is a gift - cross your legs and check your wallet.
Oh no kidding! I hate those conversations...find myself thinking 'yeah, yeah, yeah, submission is a gift, blah, blah, blah...'
When the conversation actually turns to 'who I am as a sub and who you are as a Dom', then we can talk about gifts and such.
Working too much....and unfortunately not online as much as I'd like.