Admittedly there are times when Master catches me sitting at the computer shaking my head and saying "I just don't get it". But, just because I don't understand it and it's not my kink, doesn't mean I look down on it. I try not to judge people, and in my profession it's highly frowned upon to do so, so I get quite a bit of practice here. LOL I'm of the philosophy "to each his own" which I think 90% of us on this site are. However, I'd never condone any sort of abuse. Some things are really too heinous. It's funny that I can't say "criminal things" as many states still consider sodomy a crime. Come on....even the president gets a blowjob every now and again, and I'm pretty sure someone out there in government takes it in the ass sometimes. *giggles* Like I said, to each his own, just be kind to eachother whatever your kink.