In the past, all of my relationships contained some aspect of Poly. Each varied in whether it was an outright multiple partners relationship, sharing with others, or an open relationship.

I was the typical Domly one with two regular girls at any given time and a few more coming in and out of the relationship on a regular basis. I thought I was in heaven. My needs were being met (or so I thought) and I had a plethora of play partners to choose from.

All of these relationships eventually failed, despite intense dedication and working hard at keeping them going.

I have spent several months analyzing myself and asking myself the hard questions about what I want and who I am before even considering getting into a new relationship.

The saying goes that the definition of insane is doing the same thing over and over again expecting a different outcome.

I am in a new and budding relationship that appears to have serious long term potential. I have completely put any idea of Poly or open relationship out of my mind. Not only that, those things are no longer appealing to me at all.

Poly might work well for some, if it does have a great time and enjoy. For me, I'm ready to focus on one girl and one girl only for a very long time.