1. We purposefully have the chat set up as we do-- it is a far more intimate, friendly joint. We aren't opting to be the "most popular"-- we want to create a place where anyone, anywhere, regardless of gender, orientation, kink/fetish, or level of experience (whether o/l or r/l) feels welcome & part of the community. We have no desire to have an "empire" as you so describe other sites having.

So with that in mind...

2. You can simultaniously whisper & chat in the room at the same time. See Chat FAQ in the Guidelines section of the forums to see how.

3. You can, at any time, create a room and have a group in it talking about any issue you would like to discuss (as long as it's not in violation of Chat Guidelines).

4. If you have other questions, members, or myself, Torq or any of my chat mods can answer them for you...

Regards,

delia, Chat Admin