js207 and THAT is why I get so frustrated with the GLBT community at large. You can get them to that point, they will agree completely and then when you say "OK so lets work on getting rid of this whole marriage thing all together, I even have some conservatives who agree and Libertarians are all about this lets go!" but then it's like "wait but no I want want their having. I want to be accepted by society and a legal marriage is the ONLY way that's going to happen... blah blah blah".
Box: think outside of it.