playing while under the influence

[boccaccio2000g]

Originally posted by BDSM_Tourguide



That the act of sex is a legal and binding contractual agreement between two people?

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Indeed?

It might yet be well for the (supposedly) weaker sex to heed the words that the villainous Black Jack Slocum growled to the beautiful Native American maiden as she tried to wriggle from his rapacious grasp, moments before he ripped the skimpy animal skins from her voluptuous body:

"So Sioux me."

Big Jake

[BDSM_Tourguide]

At least I think it is. Maybe some of our newer members have been curious about this.

[mastercoyote]

For me, one of the most attractive things about BDSM (and Tantra, Shibari, etc.) is the inducement of the release of the body's natural chemicals to create an altered state. What would be the point of screwing with the mixture of pheramones, adrenaline, seratonin, etc. by introducing artificial chemicals?

Just my opinion, of course. I could be wrong... or high!

[Cokera]

I think the natural high from extreme and romantic sexual situations should be quite enough to satisfy any person. I understand the loosening up factor but I agree with tourguide "just do not do it" and certainly to extremes as has happened to unfortunately many in the past. Safety cannot be an underestimated factor in anything we may or maynot do in our own private lives. That being said though. Is it really safe to be flogged 50 times for just being rude about................

[NaturalSub]

I always used to swear blind that I would never willingly enter into a scene when I had been drinking.

However, one night, whilst I was staying at a playfriends house, I got a bit pissed, I'd discovered a liking for red wine. I knew that I was pissed, but I also have a remarkable capacity to appear sober, when actually, my mind is like jelly, and as talking wasn't part of the deal, he didn;t notice me slurring my words.

We got into a scene and I did things that I know normally I never would have agreed to, I know that at some point I was suspended over his landing by my wrists, and flogged, hard.

I was in a lot of pain the next day, and not the good sort of pain, I felt totally used. Now, I know that the blame lies firmly with both of us, I know how much I'd had to drink and knew I was drunk but didn;t want to upset him, but also, he'd known how much I'd drank, and I don't know many people who would still eb totally sober after 1 1/2 bottles of wine.

It definately made me reaffirm in my mind, never to mix drinking and scening again. I lost all trust in my playfrined and we haven;t played since. But hey, you live and you learn!

[mastercoyote]

...I did things that I know normally I never would have agreed to...

Yet another reason I don't take mind-altering substances anymore, besides coffee and chocolate, anyway. But i'm kinda extreme on that. Having done volunteer work at a homeless shelter (balancing out my karma from all the wickedness I get up to!), I just got totally turned off on drugs and booze.

Besides, I like adreneline better when it's pure and uncut...