Lovely to have you with us Curious George, and if you don't find what you are looking for here - ask, ask and ask again! The majority of people who join this site do not take the jump of posting as you have, so you are probably asking for half them too!

I would also add that remember it is matter of finding what is right for you and your wife to be; it is not a question of mild is less good than less mild.

cariad