Chat Issues, Etc.

[GearJammer]

I have been able to get in easily for the last few attempts, but almost never stay in long enough to see more than 3-4 posts. Then, I get kicked out. Can't figure out why

Then, of course, today, it has to be contrary to how contrary it's been for a while. ah well........

[MacGuffin]

I am having problems getting in as well, and others have told me they have similar problems.

[good_girl]

Good to know it's not just me then...thanks

[thegirlwonder]

When you save a chat log in Mozilla, where does it end up? lol, for the life of me i can't figure out if it just opens a separate window that i can then save, or if it's stored itself somewhere on my comp...

[thepast]

It opens in a seperate window (it should, at least lol)... and then you can save it to your computer... you can also copy & paste it into a word doc.

[thegirlwonder]

Awesome, thanks so much =)

[Timoty]

Hello, before you suggest i go to the thread that already has this in it, I already have done so. I am running IE6 with sp2, have made sure that I have the latest Java (version 6 upgrade 10), have cleared cookies and files, have restarted machine, have installed the latest flash and other software, etc. Still to no avail. My system works on many , many other sites that are using the same forum engine as you. I do have a great deal of "safety" software (ie, norton, popup blocker, and spybot) and I have put the Library on the allowed list for popups and even turned my phishing protection off. My girl (commonly known as kaia.T) is on the site and chats fine. She is running different software than I am so I know it has something to do with my system. Any suggestions? What are you sending me at the moment the screen should go to the chat rooms?

Thank you, in advance, for any assistance you might give me.

Timoty

[blythe spirit]

I have been able to get in easily for the last few attempts, but almost never stay in long enough to see more than 3-4 posts. Then, I get kicked out. Can't figure out why

Then, of course, today, it has to be contrary to how contrary it's been for a while. ah well........

I've never had a problem getting "kicked" from chat until today. Kicked four times and my butt is real sore now. Of course when I am in chat, I have a hard time posting anything. Terrible lag! Woe is me! Woe is me! The lag is so bad that when I click on a user name to reply to something they said, it posts the name just after them. *shrugs*

So, wondering if someone can spank that bad chat and make it more cooperative?

[blythe spirit]

Well I was in chat today for about 10 minutes without getting kicked, but I left because of lag time. It is totally aggravating. If anyone else is typing, I can't. If anyone else is posting, I can't and if I click on a name, I still get the person underneath them, or get nothing at all.

Guess it's okay if all I wanna do is read. Are there no answers to resolve this problem?

[Kevin100]

I am having exactly the same problem. Any advice would be welcome
Kevin

[Torq]

Nope, You have done the normal items,, your going to have to change your setting for it to work, either the spyware or ,,,,
Good luck
T

[blythe spirit]

hehehe. Guess the "nope" applies to my first question - you can't spank it to make it work. And here I thought a good spanking would put it right in it's place. *sighs*

Thanks for your response. Will check settings, Spyware and all my ors.

[Torq]

And as far as folks getting "booted" from chat its NOT a server issue!!!!

There are folks that can remain in chat for days with out getting booted,,, the MAJORITY of the boots are caused by YOUR carrier,,your connection and or your computer

Although it is alot of fun to make fun of the server!!!!!! LMAO

Be Well
T

[sinderella]

there's a chat?

hmm...whattya know, there it is right up there at the top... cool!

[JohnVanDom]

Say owner/moderator - sometime you might pop into the "competition" Literotica.com - on a Saturday night almost 1000 chat people in dozens of rooms....

...but, they can simultaneously PM and chat - while this one makes you completely lose the chatroom while striking up a conversation.

...and regional/by country chats would be great - see Alt.com for samples of that

Love the site - I'm sticking as it grows.

John Hubertz
Fort Wayne, Indiana

[thepast]

1. We purposefully have the chat set up as we do-- it is a far more intimate, friendly joint. We aren't opting to be the "most popular"-- we want to create a place where anyone, anywhere, regardless of gender, orientation, kink/fetish, or level of experience (whether o/l or r/l) feels welcome & part of the community. We have no desire to have an "empire" as you so describe other sites having.

So with that in mind...

2. You can simultaniously whisper & chat in the room at the same time. See Chat FAQ in the Guidelines section of the forums to see how.

3. You can, at any time, create a room and have a group in it talking about any issue you would like to discuss (as long as it's not in violation of Chat Guidelines).

4. If you have other questions, members, or myself, Torq or any of my chat mods can answer them for you...

Regards,

delia, Chat Admin

[denuseri]

My owner and I shopped around quite a bit and I wouldn't change a thing about the lay out here.

In our opinion this site is the best bdsm themed one on the whole internet.

It's not so large as to cause things to become too impersonal, it is the most informative and intelectually organized, and has far more features available to its members, especially in the chat room.

[Veralynne]

Hi! Can anyone help?

I have never had any problems using the chat on the website before- but now when I click the link it goes to a blank page saying the internet cannot open it. Was anything changed? I never had this issue before. It's been this way for a number of hours now. Any advice??

[Diablo]

It you are using Firefox make sure you have the java plug in installed and the ad block add on not installed or disabled. IE make sure the java is updated.

[GearJammer]

not using firefox, using IE, same problem for two days, multiple wifi hookups.

[GearJammer]

Just updated Java, no help.

[thepast]

1. Server has been updated & worked on the last few days... patience please!

2. If you are getting a "can't connect" & you're on a public connection, could be that your ISP is blocking the chat-- sometimes it will allow you onto forums but not into chat.

Just a few to help out.

[GearJammer]

1. Server has been updated & worked on the last few days... patience please!

2. If you are getting a "can't connect" & you're on a public connection, could be that your ISP is blocking the chat-- sometimes it will allow you onto forums but not into chat.

Just a few to help out.

Thanks, Delia. Largely leech wifi, or use coffee shops, etc. My problem is likely the first one, as nodes that have let me on consistently in the past are not letting me on now, so I don't think it's a firewall at the ISP issue.

[Veralynne]

Yes- I agree with GearJammer- always worked at this place before- nothing has changed.

*tries to wait patiently*

[Bobbitsj]

I was wondering where everyone goes for internet chat these days. I have checked out the library chat room several times but not a lot seems to happen there. Back in the day msn had several bdsm themed chat rooms but they all shut down. I'm sure all of these thousands of people who enjoyed the chat rooms went somewhere!

If anyone knows where everyone went after msn shut down I'd certainly like to hear from you.

[steelish]

lol. Well, you obviously pop into the library chat room at the wrong times then! Lots of fun happens there, much talk of the lifestyle, play, games, antics, etc. - as well as other "vanilla" pursuits such as sports, food, family, etc.

The chat room is a great way to get to know folks in the forum - hope to see you there sometime!

[Twisted32]

i havent been able to get INTO chat for almost a week now. everytime I try theres a page load error.......

[tentative]

I'm also having trouble with getting the chatroom to load....



help? lol

[Diablo]

We are currently experiencing server issues causing issues with chat access and some other features. It is being worked on and will be up soon.

[subrob99]

Get message dns unavailable
Thanks