Well now i guess it is my turn to weigh in on this topic. i do what i do for Him because i love Him. It is as simple as that, i do know in my head and heart He is still my Master. i also know i need to stay on top of things to make sure His recovery is as smooth and stress free as i can make it so He can focus on getting His strength back (which is happening quickly, 2 weeks out of surgery and He only uses a cane to aid His walking!). Each time i have had to exert myself it feels strange, but it is always done with respect, firmness and love and as each day passes it has to be done less. If possible i now have more respect and appreciation for His role in our lives, knowing about the time and thought that goes into the control and living it are two different things!