I'm stars and roses, but you can just call me stars. I'm very new to BDSM, and I joined this site to listen, learn, and reconcile my mind to the fact that real people do all the things I've read about. My boyfriend is game to try dominating me, but he's a little hesitant to push me. He also doesn't always want to be the dominant one, which doesn't work well at all because I definitely can't take that role. Which is really odd because in my 'normal' life, I always take charge of everything - school projects, decorating, paper work, everything except what happens sexually. Then it just drops.