Hello everyone!

I joined this site for one reason... to find out if the lifestyle of BDSM is for me. I'll admit that there is a lot about this lifestyle that I have read about and fantasized about... I find some of it very exciting and erotic. Some things just aren't for me!

My problem is, I'm not exactly sure how to classify myself! I know I am not the Dominant... but not sure if I could be totally submissive either. I mean, I have found a wonderful man, who is willing to gently show me the way, but this is where I get some things confused!

What, if any, difference is there between a submissive and a slave? If I am into certain things, but not all, do I still have to bow down and "grin and bear it", so to speak? Or do I have a say in what I will perform for my master?

I love to please, but not sure how far I am willing to go... I guess only time will tell that story! That is why I am not sure about being submissive, or if I just like kinky, rough sex! :

Anyways, I am glad to be able to be a part of this site... and deff. look forward to hearing any feedback! Thanks!