In the old days a slut was someone who jumped from bed to bed for no real reason other that sex with no emotional attachment. In this life style it appears to me the word slut is used more along the lines of a term of ENDEARMENT, not as an insult. It appears there is great respect for the other person here which is one reason I like this site. I have a hard time understanding how one can insult another, or feel insulting as long as you are doing what both persons desire and are doing it with mutual respect.