hmmm-I am another one of the oldies, here. I have been on the net ever since civilians were allowed to play here and did my share of exploring the porn sites. I didn't really understand what I was until my first ex started talking with me during my most recent divorce. I believe if we lived closer, he would have been happy to introduce me to the lifestyle in person-lol. As it was, he suggested I start exploring first by going to Alt.com which I did but I wasn't comfortable there. As time has gone on, I have become comfortable in identifying myself as a sub. Then, my current bf made it clear to me that he wants to be dominated and by me. After exploring the idea for a few weeks, I realized I was comfortable with it, but had no idea how to go about it-so, I began looking for a site where I might get some help. I believe i have found it-