My whips and floggers are hidden in plain sight, displayed with my collection of swords and antique weapons (they have to hang to stay straight) as for the other "tools" they stay in the bottom 2 drawers of a huge chest of drawers.

As far as passing away, our oldest daughter has already laid claim to the "kinky toys and cuffs" and the youngest wants the riding crop to help "motivate" her new husband, and my son wants the porn collection. I have great kids