Quote Originally Posted by JohnVanDom View Post
...why do submissives switch?
Any number of reasons. Some people mislabel themselves. Some only do so for the sake of pleasing their dominant partner.

Quote Originally Posted by JohnVanDom View Post
Explain, a boss woman, who can be a b*tch, who is willing to meet me naked on her KNEES?
Obviously, she's either sexually submissive or a masochist bottom.

Quote Originally Posted by JohnVanDom View Post
Why... switch? Serious question.... why do so many strong intelligent focussed men and women need to beat on people at work and scream as they are used at home or for some prostitute Domme or whatever.

What is switching?
A switch is a person who enjoys both topping and bottoming and/or dominating and submitting. Someone who seems dominant in their daily life may need a break from "reality," but that's not switching. It's strictly a BDSM term. For instance, I enjoy submitting to my dominant partner, and I'm a masochist. I also enjoy topping others because I'm a bit of a sadist. However, I'm not interested in dominating someone on a full-time basis. It's not really in my nature to do so. I'm not a 50/50 type.

Just so you know, not all professionals are prostitutes. You can argue semantics all you want since we're dealing with sexual fetishes, but I find the tone of this post derogatory toward professional women. I suppose dominatrices who do it for free are....sluts rather than whores??? I just don't get it.