i, actually purchased my own collar, then the working heart shaped steel padlock, before i met DaddyJim... knowing intuitively that He would arrive in my life soon! i can be seen wearing the pink one in my profile avatar, and also own the same one in blue. (Found them all on e-bay) They are both very soft leather with the perfect mixture of rhinestone and spiked studs; they speak to my inner nature- bad princess. The padlock heart shows that i am Daddys only. i pray that Daddy will someday take me out to purchase the collar He wishes for me to wear...