Submissive/Slave Please introduce yourselves here

[bpqueen]

Three weeks ago I was invited to a fetish gathering, which I was unable to attend, and began researching BDSM more in depth than my dalliances in the past. Two weeks ago, I discovered that my aggressive outward personality hides a scared submissive longing for direction. Last week my friend began to lavish attention upon me. Last night I gained a Master in my friend. I can't wait to see what happens next week!

I am a 28 year old married female who wants to learn how to find herself, and is just beginning the journey. My husband is not my Master, but my Master bids me to be good to my husband, and I will work hard to make them both happy. As I am COMPLETELY new to subbing, any advice is good advice :-)

[srix]

I'm completely new here. Just joined the site couple weeks ago. I'm consider myself as a unowned submissive male but I want to learn more and go more in depth. I want/is looking for an online mistress to show me my limits or at least get me started in this lifestyle.

[WorldTraveller]

Hi All

I cannot wait to get to know everyone a little more and exploring this part of my life more

[Zarine13]

Hi all, I’m a 35 year old woman, and I’m still trying to find myself. In my first post here I labeled myself as a sub, but I’m not sure I want to do that again. I know I’m not a Domme, but I don’t quite want to give myself a label yet, until I know myself better.

I was one of those who’s Barbies used to get tied up and raped when I was a kid. So this has been in my blood for a long time. When I was in my late 20s I had a boyfriend that was also interested in the lifestyle, and we explored it a little together, bondage, some light spanking, and things like that. I LOVED it.

That relationship ended and I met the man I am with now. We have been together for almost 8 years. Our relationship was very vanilla even though I tried to get him to see my way of looking at things. That relationship is coming to an end now. I have spent so much time being a wife and a mother that now it’s time to find me again.

I have a very aggressive personality, but when it comes to the bedroom/playtime, I want to be directed, to give up that aggressiveness. I’ve learned a lot in the past couple weeks, just reading the posts here. I hope to learn a lot more as time goes on.

[wind_dancer{W_W}]

my "name" is submit2Dom
my real name is bree
i go by bee
i am thuroughly in love with my Lord (Wind_Walker25)
stop by and say hi anytime you want

[sarahuk]

Hello

I joined here a couple of weeks ago but must admit have been reading everyones posts rather than joining in. I think I am a sub, as I don't feel I could take control of a situation. Even th thought of someone giving me orders excites me. I am just trying to learn more about it before I actually act upon anything at the moment.

[jeanne]

Welcome to all the submissives who have introduced themselves recently. I hope you find what you are seeking here.

[DaddysBadPrincess]

Greetings to all my fellow and sister subs. i am known here and to my Daddy as DaddysBadPrincess, or DBP if you desire. i am 39 and have been intrigued with BDSM for a number of years, always knowing deep in my heart that i was a sub. i never felt i was safe enough with whatever partner i was with to leave the "vanilla" world so kept it secreted away, waiting quietly for my Daddy to arrive. Arrived at long last, He has, and is joining me here to oversee my education. He is called DaddyJim and i love Him with my whole being, wishing only to fulfill His every desire of me. i now humbly study at the feet of any who might guide me in the ways princess may please her Daddy.

[DaddyJim]

Greetings to all my fellow and sister subs. i am known here and to my Daddy as DaddysBadPrincess, or DBP if you desire. i am 39 and have been intrigued with BDSM for a number of years, always knowing deep in my heart that i was a sub. i never felt i was safe enough with whatever partner i was with to leave the "vanilla" world so kept it secreted away, waiting quietly for my Daddy to arrive. Arrived at long last, He has, and is joining me here to oversee my education. He is called DaddyJim and i love Him with my whole being, wishing only to fulfill His every desire of me. i now humbly study at the feet of any who might guide me in the ways princess may please her Daddy.

Princess, Daddy has been closely following your determination and progress in your latest endeavors; I want you to know that you have pleased Daddy...there is a reward waiting for you.

Daddy loves you, Princess.

[slave_peter]

im sub have been 4 as long as i can remember im now a owned slave
im owned and the property of Mistress Tanya

[n4trbl]

hi everyone! i am the proud slave owned by innamoramento. pretty new to this scene. very eager and willing to learn anything and everything in order to better serve my owner. am very thankful for the strong hand of my master.

[fourmaggie]

Hi everyone... I am Maggie and I am new to the scene of submission and well so is my Master(Poetguy1979)we met and my eyes just follows him where ever he goes.....I adore this man and so want to please him in every way possible....Master has given me his collar and very I'm much devoted to him and him alone.....yes its intense and we have only been doing this for a short time but wow.....I so want to be his submissive slut in every way possible.....

[cattus9]

Hi,

-waves-

I'm 19 and currently in a relationship with the most amazing man, but hoping it to get more kinky than it already is, after 2 years together I know he's a Dom and hopefully he'll be on this forum someday

[adreena]

Hi all! Adreena here ... totally no where close to my name at all ... just part of a band that I appreciate.

Anyways, I know I'm submissive, but am too new to understand yet just how far it goes. Maybe I'm a slave and I just don't know it yet!

Hoping to learn and be able to participate in as much as possible here.

[Guest1231008]

Hi IM patheticslave11. Ive only started to get intot he whole bdsm scene. i have alot to learn and look forward to it. I have only served one dom before and it didnt last long as she said she no longer had intrest in it. Im hoping to find a mistress to serve online who will teach me alot.

[BryansGrrrl]

Hello all. My story is almost identical to Zarine's, except I have not been in a D/s relationship before.

I am 34 and owned by Lisais mine. We began our relationship back in April of this year as friends, and have fallen in love. He is helping me to learn about myself and explore this side of me.

[Tleanne5664]

Hello. I think I have always known that I am a sub. I am in what started as a vanilla relationship that is evolving into D/s rather quickly. Nothing excites me more than to put myself in his control. Since most of my "Vanilla Time" is spent controlling others or myself; being ordered to my knees is my favorite part of the day.
I am 25, and still learning the in/outs of BDSM. OMG! I am so excited!

[fourmaggie]

well hi, I am Maggie and well I am a submissive Canadian girl who is at her prime in her life.....I am a widow of 7 years coming in March 2009 and have 2 children by him....I have come out of the closet and well I did have a Master that took over rite where my hubby left off....he released me...so that I am honoured to have some experience in some way (not alot but some...) my life is awesome now that the fog has lifted and well I never want to go to that place again for a long time.......I am old fashion I guess u can say but that is in my vanilla life....I am slowly coming out but need guidence form my friends and well not afraid to ask.......my family and friends are what matter.....and this life is slowly coming into my vanilla life ( love it!)......I love all the learning and converstions and well I love to GROW in mind and spirit......I do volunteer work for Friends of Recovery and well it is a "drug and alcohol free envoirnment" and well it keeps me on track......please email me and well lets chat....thanks for reading....

[n4trbl]

hello everyone....i am fairly new to the scene but have been lucky enough to have been allowed to be educated in the life of D/s by Innamoramento. What luck!!! no bad experience as others have previously stated. would still love to learn ways to better please my master.

[yama]

I have just joined. I am Yama, a girl of 19, with strong submissive inclinations. I had been weaving masochist daydreams even before I learned that there was such a thing as masochism. I didn't mentioned them to anybody, until I made friends with Lila, a girl about my age, with whom I had intimate talks which revealed that she was willing to humiliate and punish me. And so she has been doing since more than a year now, and I love it very much. She enjoys it, too.

We are not part of the BDSM subculture, what I know about it I learned online. I find that our dom/sub relationship differs strongly from the "official" forms. I never addressed Lila as "Mistress" and she doesn't consider me her slave. She doesn't want to control my whole life. I don't wear a collar. What she enjoys is humiliating and punishing me, and she makes a good job of it, even if she does it with a sweet mocking laugh and talks to me all the time as to a good friend. She handles the whip well, my body is rarely without welts, she spits into my mouth and makes me drink of the water she soaked her feet in. I am delighted to endure it and I laugh with her, except when I am moaning and screaming under her strokes. She is often compelled to tie and gag me. It has never occurred to us to use any safeword, I simply trust her. We learned to satisfy each other sexually, even is the essence of our relationship isn't that but my humiliation. I obey her, of course, and I would obey her is she wanted to control me much more. However, I don't feel a slave and I think I don't need that feeling.

It doesn't mean that I reject more humiliation. You are free to call me any degrading name, I will thank you. And you are free to give me a virtual slap or kick any time, I will remain meek and respectful. I don't feel a slave but I am ready to be an online slave if somebody wants me to. Lila isn't jealous at all. She has my body to torture whenever she wants to.

Thank you for your kind attention.

Humbly

Yama

[Its_Cleo]

Hi all, i am a sub and sort of new to the lifestyle. For the last few years i read a lot of bdsm fiction, always longing for more, to connect with someone and learn how to be a sub, not just read about it.

Funny thing is, in my day to day life i am always focussed on being in control...it's exhausting though. i long to let that go, to find a dom and submit completely and know that i am pleasing him in doing so.

i have a lot to learn first though i think and i'm glad to be here

[yama]

It doesn't mean that I reject more humiliation. You are free to call me any degrading name, I will thank you. And you are free to give me a virtual slap or kick any time, I will remain meek and respectful. I don't feel a slave but I am ready to be an online slave if somebody wants me to. Lila isn't jealous at all. She has my body to torture whenever she wants to.

Please let me correct myself. I am ready to be an online slave only
for an occasion. This very morning a gentleman was so kind as
to treat me as his slave, my pussy and my nipples are still sore with
his treatment. :-) I subject myself happily to such treatment any
possible time, but I can't offer myself for a lasting relationship.
I go away for Christmas and New Year, and after that I move in a
flat where I won't have a computer. Buying one from my salary
is a thing which will come only later.

Thank you if you took the time to read this.

[subbie7]

Hey I'm subbie7.
I'm totally new at this. I've never had a real relationship with a Dom before, and only a really awkward set of conversations with one on the internet. I don't know where to go and what to do and I'm terribly lost. One day I want to have a Dom, I want to submit and be owned and loved...but I don't think that I ever will. Sorry, I have no self confidence and never have.

[hiscocksuckerslave]

hi new to the lifestyle been a sub/slave for 7 months now
in real life, my name says is all it's what i love best to
suck his cock when ever he demands...
we dont live together but i am available whenever
he calls....i am comfortable with our relationship and cant see
myself in any other kind of relationship...
i am looking forward to many rewarding years with the same Dom/Master....
i have learned alot from this
website and i thank everyone for the information that has been
provided here

[jeanne]

Welcome to all the new members. I hope you find what you need here.

[tentative]

Hi. I'm very new to the the lifestyle and am nervous how to even begin anything.

I'm 18 with a deep submissive streak and have been interested in the D/s scene for a long while.

I just thought I'd pop in and introduce myself instead of lurking creepily in the shadows *grins*


Talk to eveyone later

[markus_valtion]

hello.

i have been on the forum for a while and came to the conclusion that i'm submissive. although i dont know the what extent yet. i hope i can find out who i realy am and have fun in the proces .

[amislaaf]

I am Amislaaf (American Slave) who lives in Europe, I enjoy humiliation and serving my wife (mistres) and her bf's (my masters), I do not enjoy sucking cock and eating cum, but it is who I am and i do as told... also the humiliation is over powering the dislike.

[unmastered]

Hello Everyone:

My name is unmastered( enough said hmmm?) I have allways known I was a sub from the very begining. Its hard to get what you really desire when you were so many hats. I have allways been a leader in school, business, friends so men just thought it natural and was at ease when i led them in other areas. It was just a means to get them to do or say what I really needed for myself( can anyone understand what I mean). You would have thought that one of them wanted to take me down a peg or two...lol In the end I always left due to lack of respect for them. I never wanted a man I could control even though they made it easy.

I have had a Dom( sort of) in the past,but I was not ready for his caliber of training although we were really good friends( with him it was and still is all-or-nothing).

There is a lot I do not know but am very eager to learn.

I am too old to cont. to settle for anything else than complete bliss and surrender as a woman.

Its unfortunate for others in my life.... I really hope that they can keep up...lol

unmastered

[amislaaf]

My name is Amislaaf, which stands for American Slave. I live in Europe and am married to my Mistress. I serve her and her lovers (both male and female).

I enjoy being a slave and enjoy the humiliation of servicing her lovers and cleaning her after. Life is good as a slave and the humiliating f some of the things I must do really adds to my excitement and I think it is what keeps me happy as a slave/cocksucker whimp hubby or whatever she deems to call me.

Been in the lifestyle for only about the last 7 years and really enjoy it, would love to take it to a complete 24/7 but guess we or I am not ready for that yet.

Anyway anyone can feel free to contact me and ask questions or offer advice both are welcome...

Amislaaf