the good thing about BDSMers is that 99.9% of them are open minded. Like gothichippiechick said, there are guys out there that like anal, yes some of them are straight but still like anal. Me on the one hand i hate it, its not a hard limit but a limit at least.
To me it seems like you have self confidence issues (who doesnt!?). Try not to think that NO ONE would want to play with you, there is someone out there for everyone, seriously. You may not find them right now, or tomorrow but you will find them one day. Try to really work on yourself, and be more positive. (i should take my own advice)


No one is ever alone in there desires, if you like something im 100% positive that someone else likes it also, believe me! I hope you find a Domina that suits you! Good luck, and welcome to the library!