I think I find two types of women most attractive.

The openly submissive types that are really sweet and loyal and love attention. The downside is they go about a week between relationships (mostly bad ones) so the opportunities tend to be few and far between.

The confident playfully aggressive types that like submission and pain because its fun for them. One of these days I am going to find out where they all hang out.

I like people I can hold a conversation with and share laughs with so that applies to subs as well.